We hear this term all the time.." You cant turn a hoe into a housewife" But how true is that really? The more being a hoe becomes popular, the more likely it is for the "hoes" to be married or in a committed relationship. But once she's been transformed, what is expected of her? The obvious of course, nightly blow jobs, threesomes, anal sex, good home cooking, warm & inviting home, children well taken care of. This is her life now. Not all men are secure enough to be with a former "Hoe" the scrutiny from their friends is too much for some of them to handle. The ones who do though, should understand that just because a woman has "lived" a little doesn't mean that she is ready to stop living. This also doesn't mean that she wants to fuck and suck everything walking or moving. These woman are now ready for the life that their friends were having early on in their late teens. They want to be Susie Homemaker and they also want it to be appreciated. The hoe who turns into the housewife also doesn't want to be reminded of her past. If you've made the commitment to love her, then do that and move on. Trust the "good girls" will scowl at your choice of mate, but if they had anything exciting going on besides their since of entitlement maybe they would have someone to keep them warm at night as well. Former hoes are everywhere. At church, your children's school, your work place, all over. You can usually spot them out because their confidence is exuberant. They know that they are the shit and they show it. And they are usually subtle in their actions and approach. Now as not to confuse some, anything and nothing makes you a hoe. So I'm just using this word for lack of a better one. And besides, I like saying "Hoe".
When you turn your hoe into a housewife, it is harder to cheat and lie..as she has been on the other end of that conversation, probably having been a former mistress once or twice. So its best that your done with your "playa" lifestyle if you want to have a relationship because you wont be able to pull the wool over a Smart Woman's eyes.
This is usual a good pairing for two people who are truly confident. Not just in their physical appearances, but in their ability to show trust. If you have an attractive mate, others are going to be attracted to them. But it is up to you as a couple to set standards and boundaries of how deep others can penetrate your union. Nothing kills insecure people more than seeing two beautiful loving people in a happy relationship, openly flirting amongst themselves. They hate that shit!!!! Jealous men & woman. That's why these types of relationships are extremely rare, but they do exist. To truly turn a "hoe into a housewife" it takes both the man a d woman in the relationship. He needs to trust you, and She needs you to love her. Simple.
Monday, December 17, 2012
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Cold Shoulder
He says that I wont let him in.
I see you, I know your type & types are alike.
He wants more of me than I want to give. People forget that you have to give to receive. I can feel the hurt from the last women you was with. Her pain travels with you. I am protecting my heart. You cannot feel me entirely cause you are not who your supposed to be. If I know nothing I know that I will protect myslef from you. Cause like me, you have been hurt, but you have yet to identify the source of your pain. I can see you clearly, but you cant feel me.
Cause if you did, you would know that my love flows deep. So deep that its almost taboo, and I am careful of who I give it to. If you felt me you would never question my apprehension, you would only ease my tension.
Wild Flower
Like a flower, at first glance is bright and beautiful. Full of life, needing attention & love to keep its beauty. We cherish it for a few days, marvel at its beauty, admire the intricacies of each petal. Then a few days go by and we've almost memorized its beauty so its not as special anymore and we treat it as such. Each time we walk by and ignore the flower, it withers. The love & feelings we showered on it the first few days meant alot. The flower feels used, it knows that it can offer alot more than visual beauty, but we are to blind to appreciate it. The flower dies. So we go and buy more flowers.
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