Nerds.

The smell of the juices streaming out her small pink pillow filled the room. She wanted him inside her deeper, her carnal desires ached for his erection to stretch her out. Even though inside of her mind she was fighting him, desperately. She knows she is weak for him. As he caressed and stroked her bare peach, he breathed heavily on her neck. He felt her resistance but this only made him more forceful. One hand on her ass while the other hand is right above her clit. He pumped harder..she did not moan. Her silence, plus the rhythmic sound their bodies were making was driving him wild & this made him pump faster...he wanted to hear her sweet ooo's & aaah's. He could see the passion burning all over her face, but he wanted to HEAR it. "You like how daddy stroke this pussy?" "Open up! I want it ALL in there, I wanna get in that secret room" he said smacking and rubbing her round brown ass, he felt her getting tighter & tighter. He pulled his throbbing cock out of her and beat it against her box. He turned her over on her back & then slowly slid his phallus back inside her with her thick juicy legs wrapped around his neck. By stroke three she couldn't control her body any longer, she began to shake, she arched her back and grab his legs digging her nails into him...she whispered "o shit, oh my god!" he stared at her eyes and simply replied "Don't fight it" she couldn't control it anymore. She knew he had had her, with her body completely paralyzed for a half of a second, she then moved her pelvis, thrusting towards his even harder, he grabbed her lightly by the neck & kissed her. She felt her entire body melt. He said "I'm about to come baby..Damn!" he then stood up over her while she was on her knees, & stroked his juices all onto her breast and face. She playfully licked n kissed it & with every touch his body shivered .

Popeye the Sailor man or Bluto the Lover man?

Popeye, Olive Oyl & Bluto, are one of the earliest and most famous of love triangles. This stick thin woman has two men constantly fighting for her love and devotion. But who did she actually enjoy spending time with? Who did she think about at 3am? This is something that I have thought about, its just a light, comical view of my interpretation of their situation.
I think that she enjoyed being with Bluto more. He seems to have a more exciting personality. He's an international criminal, he has hide-outs all around, and he always thinks of new ways to tie Olive Oyl ass up. Bluto would always kidnap her to these foreign exotic places, with Popeye she is merely a housewife,a sailors housewife. And all he did was work out and eat spinach. So Olive Oyl figured out a way to have her cake and eat too. She thought one day, "hmmm, this dude Bluto is kind of interesting, he is a boss, he makes moves, I know him & Popeye don't really get along but I'll take my chances, let me see whats up" and her being the only non -hooker cartoon in that world, odds were in her favor. She went and chilled with Bluto one day and she seen how he was living. Much more upscale than her and Popeyes humble shack. Bluto obviously wanted her all to himself but she knew better. Olive Oyl knew that Popeye would be easier to manipulate, he trusted her.

Now with all that said, who is better in bed? In my opinion when she wanted to get "fucked" she got "kidnapped" by Bluto. He created a whole ambiance for her. She would be hanging the clothes up to dry, in her and Popeye's backyard, and here Bluto come snacthing her up. Olive had this shit planned perfectly. She screaming and shit tryna make it look good as not to hurt Popeye's feelings. Once they would get to Bluto's secret hideaway palace, she became uninhibited. Dancing like an Arabian, smoking hookah, gagging,(lol) you know,#hoeshit. So when Popeye finally locates them, him and Bluto fight, Bluto wins, and then Popeye eats performance enhancing spinach and bust Bluto's ass in the name of his woman. All the while Olive Oyl on the sideline cheering Popeye on like she supposed too. Classic damsel in distress. Popeye's sings his infamous song and they go home. But whats that convo like back home at the humble shack? I imagined it goes something like this: Popeye: "Olive Oyl, you dealing with alot of bullshit, how this nigga always manage to kidnap you?"  Olive Oyl: "Oh Popeye you know your the only man for me, Bluto is just jealous cause I wont fuck with him and he know we don't be paying him no mind so he gotta fuck with us anyway he can. He stay talking shit when he has me tied up against those barrels of dynamite or tied up to the train tracks, but I ont be hearing that shit Popeye, I love you" Popeye "Yea well just be more mindful, this the 3rd time this month you've got kidnapped.
Then Olive Oyl pulls out Popeye's ol shriveled up spinach and pleases her savior orally.She does it out of love not pleasure. Even though Bluto has a much larger body, to Olive he is a passionate love maker. They can only do it in one position, doggy style cause of his stomach, but nevertheless, Olive is more than satisfied. Bluto excites her mentally. She never knows what scheme he is going to do next, so this allows her to stay in a mind state of sexual suspension. With Popeye its the same ol same. And routine becomes boring.

3Sum General Rules

This is a general guideline, definitely doesn't apply to all, but for some Im sure it will be helpful.

1) Make sure its something that you want. A lot of ppl are persuaded into sexual situations that they never intended on being in. They were just talking shit and the next thing you know, you caught up into something you don't wanna be in. This is usually women, because we are so eager to please men sexually we loose sight of what were into and what we are not.
2) Set rules between you & your spouse. Don't have your 3rd party do something to you or your ex that you feel you would be uncomfortable with. Set boundaries. No kissing, no looking into each others eyes, because you don't want feelings hurt.
3) For a woman having a 3sum with her man and another woman, you pick the woman. Chances are any bitch he bringing to the table he done had already and that aint a 3 sum, thats a reunion.
4)If your a woman, and want to have a 3sum with your man and another guy. Forget about it. These new niggas feel like thats a "gangbang" Dont ask me why or how, but if that is something you really, really wanna do, go for it! Men are insecure and the thought of another nigga coming to fuck your brains out and possibly do it better than him, he wont be right for weeks. I would suggest maybe mentioning you and another couple having a group sex session. That way, he'll get to see you with another chick, and you can get some new dick without him getting mad. Just don't moan to loud!!
5) If it feels forced, dont do it, chances are its not the right person, time, or place. You should feel excited about it without the help of drugs or alcohol.
6) Understand that you are about to watch someone you love stick his penis inside of another woman. Understand that. Dont act jealous, dont act bitchy. All your gonna do is sour the mood and chances are they may continue to fuck while your stewing in your mood. Take control of the situation. Even if that means acting submissive. Be his fantasy, you are the star they are the props. Remember this is supposed to bring you all closer.
7)When everyone is finished, completely finished, have your 3rd party leave. This is time for you and your man to be close & intimate. Even if you are in a hotel room, your "prop" should have their own room to go to and sleep.
8) Keep it to yourself! You may think you can share this with your friends, but its best you dont. We all have that one friend we trust, and if you must, tell them only. You dont want people all in your business, cause they will hate!! While you tell them its all smiles and laughs, but let something happen and you'll be a pussy eating, cant satisfy her man ass hoe.
9) Do it again! If all went well and the both of you enjoyed yourselves, make plans to do it again in the near future. You may be playing the scene over and over again in your mind and hopefully it was a good experience. Whether its with the same person or a different one, the choice will be up to you and your mate.
10)Salute your self. Regardless of whether or not you've been with a woman, chances are this is your first time with your man AND a woman so be happy at the fact that you and your mate have reached a place in your relationship where you feel confident enough to include another to heighten your affection and intensity towards one another. This should bring you closer together & give you a deeper intimate connection.

*If you don't think you can handle any of this but still want to have a threesome, my suggestion would be to find 2 other people in a relationship to do it with, that way everyone has something to gain and lose.

Birds & Bees

I'm sure this is something that has only very briefly entered your mind, if at all, but how are you planning on introducing sex to your children? I do not have any kids, but the thought of my friends innocent little children having sex makes me cringe! But it is a reality that we have to face. I believe the best approach maybe to introduce it as naturally as possible. Explaining the differences between male & female genitalia, using the proper words for each body part. Explain that sex is a natural part of life,  used for reproducing as well as expressing your intimate feelings for someone. I would talk about STD's, AIDS, I would try to make the conversation as natural and normal as possible.
Its easy for me to say this with a logical head because as I said, I don't have children. But if I did, I wonder if my approach would be different for my son and daughter? Would I tell my daughter to wait until she is married and then go and buy my son condoms? This is the double standard that most parents have quietly accepted for generations. Daughters keep your legs closed; Sons go where ever the wind blows. In my opinion both suggestions are extremely harmful. I know no one wants to think about someone penetrating their daughter but, why isn't anyone troubled by a 11 year old boy having sex? We as adults and parents should make it clear to kids that sex is a serious decision, and you should not be pressured into it regardless of gender.

Depending on my child's level of maturity, I would decide the best age. I know its scary to think about but the younger the better. And if we as adults want our children doing worldly and adult things like getting passport stamps and wearing high end designer clothes, we should also be prepared to talk to them about something real that will inform them and hopefully allow them to make the best decision.
It is not something that you can ignore nor should you. Open up the lines of communication early for these types of convo's, its better to be prepared than caught of guard. I know we all try to prepare our kids for unwanted sexual advances but do we ever think about preparing them for how to react to their own changing hormones? I can remember getting tingles in my peach as early as 8 or 9 when I would see a boy I liked. (remember when kissing was like sex? Lol *sighs*) So how much longer are we going to forget that these are small adults in training?
If we can talk so blatantly about our child's fathers or mothers in a disrespectful light, we should also be prepared to talk to our kids about sex. And not in a way to scare them either. I remember when I got my first period, and I told my Grandma, she said "alright now, you know you gotta stay away from them boys now"? I just shook my head yes because what else was I supposed to say? Boys? Why? They don't like this? Why? What would happen if I go around boys now that I have my period? These kinds of comments can wreck havoc on a young child's mind entering puberty. Explain what a period is to your son and daughter. This is part of our biological make-up. As moms & dads, aunts & uncles, mommy's bbf n daddy's day one, we have to educate our kids. On everything. Not only about the latest fashion or electronic.

Are you a victim?

 "Shoulder Fuckers"

Sounds different doesn't it? But I'm sure alot of you young & older ladies are accepting this form of love making as pleasurable sex. You like this dude, he has a nice size package, but every time y'all do the do your unfulfilled  And you cant figure out why. You've even started to believe your moans to be sounds of pleasure. Instead they are just very loud harmonic sighs.  You see him pumping his heart away but its just not connecting. Ive diagnosed this as "Shoulder Fucking". While your in missionary position you notice his shoulders are moving up and down, and he has a confused out of breath look on his face. (Don't you want to slap him?) He has audacity to ask if it feels good, right in the middle of you fantasizing about ol' boy from your home girls block. So how do you fix this? If you know your not really invested and don't care, leave. Don't trick yourself into believing that sex isn't everything. If your not being satisfied, leave. He would leave your ass.
Now if this is someone whom you love and care for and want a life with, talk to them. Men are extremely sensitive about their sexual performance so take that into consideration. What is the nicest way to tell someone to thrust from their lower back and not their shoulders? I don't know, because I dumped my shoulder fucker. But, some say you can show/teach but I'm a firm believer in "either you got it or you don't". Aint that much cute in the world to make me stay in a shoulder fucking wack sex relationship. And lawd knows its usually the light and curly cuties with the skinny dicks and weak backs. My advice to you is know what turns YOU on sexually and don't be afraid to get what you ask for. I guess if you really love a "shoulder fucker" just make him stay downtown a few extra minutes than normal. Love conquers all right? Oh okay.

The Gag Effect *XXX-Mature Eyes & Minds Only*



I walk in & I turn up!



Ok so, your in your room, just got out the shower and your winding down from a long day, waiting for your spouse. There is something new you want to try but your just a little shy about. Now maybe you've heard about it or even seen it, maybe even dared to try it; "Gagging" aka deep throat. Now I'm not talking about for a couple of seconds, I mean fully engulfing a mans erect phallus completely inside of your mouth. Now I don't believe this is something you can just do, I think it takes time, a little practice, & some fears to get over like suffocation lol. And this has to be something that you've fantasized about. This CANNOT be solely for the pleasure of your spouse, because then you wont enjoy it. Ok, so you've studied by watching the porn pro's, and practiced with ice pops and tried different breathing techniques, now your ready to show off. Your mate is an unsuspecting guinea pig in your sexual experiment, but I don't think he'll mind. You prep your mates erection by licking, kissing, and sucking the entire shaft. You slowly take him in inch by inch  massaging your throat for the kill. You cant breath so you start to panic and your throat constricts and you "gag" on his penis. It feels scary, but these assholes like this lol. One guy has describe it to me as feeling like "when your inside the p**sy and she is coming".  So you look up to catch a few breaths and the face on your mate looks as if he is caught in between the ecstasy of pain & pleasure.

He is now aware that this is not just regular weekday night sex, you wanna turn up a little bit so you begin stroking him in your hand, mentally preparing yourself for gag #2. Each kiss and lick is a build up to the deep throat. He almost cant even control himself cause he wants to feel your mouth on him,  arresting him with the inside of your cheeks, lips, and tongue.
 
So now that your nerves have calmed you are now allowing him to hold your head or pull your hair whichever your most comfortable with, as he tries to force his penis down your entire throat. Your relaxed, you've found a position that you can breath comfortably in. You begin to moan pleasurably while he is inside your mouth, mimic-ing a vibration sensation. Your maintaining your seductive look and body language, but inside your head you are geeked out because you cant believe your actually having your throat aggressively penetrated.
Now this certainly isn't for everyone. As I said earlier you should only do this if YOU feel comfortable, and with someone that you can trust.
Its about becoming uninhibited and admitting to your own desires. A lot of times as women, we become so obsessed with  what others think that we stop living. We start to become stale, and monotonous because we aren't admitting to our true desires. Whether its sexual, financial, or educational. Submit to your desires and see how alive you feel.

What's Your Masturbation Style?

We all have done it, no sense in denying it. Now what I want to know is HOW you do it and how often. When you do things that are supposed to be kept quiet and not mentioned, you assume that either no one else does it or everyone does it exactly as you do. Well your wrong, lol. As far as women go, I know some who can achieve climax in the shower, in the bed or by simply closing their legs tightly and squeezing.
For women who can get off in the shower though, I always wondered if they laid down or if this was a standing session only? Does your neck get stiff if you do lay down in the tub? And what if someone needs to use the bathroom? ( your man or kids, or roommates). That's why I could never get into it. My nerves are TOO bad.
I have a girlfriend who told me that her live-in boyfriend caught her in the bathroom getting back shots from the dildo that can suction onto the walls. His only comment was "You greedy". Pure comedy. My married guy friend waits for his wife to leave for work, then he goes and pops his favorite porn DVD in & passes out on their couch and she has found him sleeping, with a soft wet c*ck in hand. I know that some guys like to use condoms so they won't have jizz everywhere afterwards. Some people are very comfortable having their sexual partner watch or "assist" them in masturbating. I guess this can be a form of four play.
For my female friends, some use toys, some only their hands, some can use both. Me personally, I only use my hands, and don't want anyone to watch or hear me. I watch porn or come up with some outrageous fantasy and wait for the countdown. Sometimes I go on an all day self pleasuring binge, and then there are times when I wont do it for weeks. I cannot scream out in pleasure from a self inflicted climax and when I do, I feel so embarrassed. Masturbation is extremely personal to me. I don't mind talking about, but don't EVER ask me to "let you watch" lol. Its just something I haven't been able to get into.

I do find it weird that some women (& men) claim that they are not into that and they don't do it. Then I have to ask "how do you know what you like sexually" how can you correctly guide anyone to pleasure you if you don't even know yourself what arouses you. Also, I believe people who are in touch with themselves sexual are more receptive to the sexual needs and wants of others. Basically I'll know what you like way before you even do. 
I'm not saying that if you don't masturbate you are lame in bed, but it is questionable from my experience.

101

To me, sex doesn't exist without "talking dirty". I love to talk, so telling my sexual athlete what I want and how I want it, is basically bedroom gossip to me. Yea, we all hear what they say on the porno's but are we really saying any of that shit?  Hearing "oh Daddy this is yours" or "yes baby f**k me" over & over again becomes boring. When I was 18 years old and my boyfriend at the time called me a "pretty ass bitch" while we were having intercourse, sex has never been the same, and when I'm with someone who isn't that verbal sexually, the experience is beyond boring. Of course you have to be with someone your comfortable with and you all know each others sexual history, but once that's all squared away and you've been together 50+ times sexually already, the ohh's and ahh's become oh so boring. To get things started, dare your girl to not make any sounds while your inside her, watch her face expressions from trying to fight and keep quiet. Vice versa for the women. I tell my guy I'm not gonna make no noise and I love to watch his face ferociously f**k me into singing sweet oh god's & yes baby's !!
Basically what I'm trying to say is think outside the box. It can be something as simple as what I suggested or as outrageous as you want. If you wanna stand on your head and get strokes tell him. If you want her to  chase your nut with a shot of Patron, tell her.
Sex is mostly mental, you see someone attractive, you become aroused and begin to imagine all of the sexual positions the two of you could be in. Once that initial mind play is conquered, you then have to come up with new and electrifying ways to keep your spouses sexual imagery racing. 
Let your imagination run wild. I've told my man that I was gonna do his laundry while we were having sex one day, he went crazy!! In a good way, it was something so out of the ordinary. Who is actually thinking about laundry while having GOOD sex? But go there, tell your woman that your not playing xbox or PS3 for a whole week!! HA!  It all adds to the sexual experience. When you've been with someone for a while and y'all have done every position, hearing "this is yours" becomes  is so lame. Obviously its yours because we are still sleeping with you! Have mentally four play, it enhances the physical arousal and then the actually sex.