3Sum General Rules

This is a general guideline, definitely doesn't apply to all, but for some Im sure it will be helpful.

1) Make sure its something that you want. A lot of ppl are persuaded into sexual situations that they never intended on being in. They were just talking shit and the next thing you know, you caught up into something you don't wanna be in. This is usually women, because we are so eager to please men sexually we loose sight of what were into and what we are not.
2) Set rules between you & your spouse. Don't have your 3rd party do something to you or your ex that you feel you would be uncomfortable with. Set boundaries. No kissing, no looking into each others eyes, because you don't want feelings hurt.
3) For a woman having a 3sum with her man and another woman, you pick the woman. Chances are any bitch he bringing to the table he done had already and that aint a 3 sum, thats a reunion.
4)If your a woman, and want to have a 3sum with your man and another guy. Forget about it. These new niggas feel like thats a "gangbang" Dont ask me why or how, but if that is something you really, really wanna do, go for it! Men are insecure and the thought of another nigga coming to fuck your brains out and possibly do it better than him, he wont be right for weeks. I would suggest maybe mentioning you and another couple having a group sex session. That way, he'll get to see you with another chick, and you can get some new dick without him getting mad. Just don't moan to loud!!
5) If it feels forced, dont do it, chances are its not the right person, time, or place. You should feel excited about it without the help of drugs or alcohol.
6) Understand that you are about to watch someone you love stick his penis inside of another woman. Understand that. Dont act jealous, dont act bitchy. All your gonna do is sour the mood and chances are they may continue to fuck while your stewing in your mood. Take control of the situation. Even if that means acting submissive. Be his fantasy, you are the star they are the props. Remember this is supposed to bring you all closer.
7)When everyone is finished, completely finished, have your 3rd party leave. This is time for you and your man to be close & intimate. Even if you are in a hotel room, your "prop" should have their own room to go to and sleep.
8) Keep it to yourself! You may think you can share this with your friends, but its best you dont. We all have that one friend we trust, and if you must, tell them only. You dont want people all in your business, cause they will hate!! While you tell them its all smiles and laughs, but let something happen and you'll be a pussy eating, cant satisfy her man ass hoe.
9) Do it again! If all went well and the both of you enjoyed yourselves, make plans to do it again in the near future. You may be playing the scene over and over again in your mind and hopefully it was a good experience. Whether its with the same person or a different one, the choice will be up to you and your mate.
10)Salute your self. Regardless of whether or not you've been with a woman, chances are this is your first time with your man AND a woman so be happy at the fact that you and your mate have reached a place in your relationship where you feel confident enough to include another to heighten your affection and intensity towards one another. This should bring you closer together & give you a deeper intimate connection.

*If you don't think you can handle any of this but still want to have a threesome, my suggestion would be to find 2 other people in a relationship to do it with, that way everyone has something to gain and lose.